Tasty Traditions: Pretzel-M&M-Hugs

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So simple - just pretzels, Hershey's Hugs, and M&M,s - but so tasty!

Ralph and Ella didn't come up with this salty-sweet concoction, but it is often a staple at their holiday gatherings. One year for Christmas, they made a huge batch and packaged them up for family members in little cellophane bags with hand-written tags on them (and I might have eaten most of the bag when no one was looking). 

There are a myriad of recipes online for how to make this, but this recipe caught my eye and I've pasted it below, from a site titled Dessert Now, Dinner Later. (Reminds me of the time we were out to dinner at Marie Calendar's and Ralph ordered dessert first. He loves that story.)

INGREDIENTS
  • 50 Mini Pretzels
  • 50 Hershey's Hugs
  • 50 M&M's red and green Christmas variety

INSTRUCTIONS
  1. Line a baking sheet with a silicone mat, parchment paper, or foil.
  2. Place as many pretzels as you want on the prepared tray.
  3. Unwrap hugs and place one in the center of each pretzel.
  4. Bake at 200 degrees Fahrenheit for 4 to 5 minutes or until the chocolate is soft.
  5. Immediately press an M&M in the center of the melty hug.
  6. Allow chocolate to set back up in the fridge, freezer, or at room temperature.
  7. Once chocolate is set, store Pretzel Hugs in an airtight container or package for gifts.

 

The Sky's the Limit...Continued. Or, "Thank You, Ralph Mitchell"

In a previous blog post, I shared a story of how Ralph offered a ground school lesson and flight time as an incentive for good behavior in a potentially rowdy teenage Sunday school class. His experience was written up for a personal interest story in the Deseret News online. Here's an excerpt:

Mitchell recalls showing up as a substitute Sunday school teacher years ago in Renton, Wash., where he had a job selling helicopters. The 13-year-old boys in the class were determined to give him a bad time, "so I said, 'Look, if we can get through the lesson, we'll do some ground school," he says.


Ground school? The boys fell silent. If Mitchell could give them ground lessons, then perhaps some time in the air might follow.


It did. A few weeks later, Mitchell took them all flying, and for one boy in particular, it was a life-changing moment. Years later, after Mitchell had moved to Utah, he heard somebody call out his name in an air hangar. A tall young man with blond hair rushed forward.


"You might not remember me, but I remember you," he told Mitchell. "My name is Rod Tiede — one of those rowdy Sunday school kids you took flying. That day was the best day of my life. Today, I'm a corporate pilot."



But there's so much more to the story, including a friendship that has continued through the years and a pilot who, every time he flies, says, "Thank you, Ralph Mitchell. Thank you, Ralph Mitchell."


In Ralph's words: 


The reason I got on the Internet: In the newspaper one day, I saw a column written by Cathy Free, she had a little tagline, “If you’ve got an interesting story, call me and I’ll take you to lunch.” …


So I thought why not? I had had an experience in Seattle. When we first moved to Seattle, we moved into Renton, Renton 3rd ward, and they called me to be a substitute Sunday school teacher. I walked into the class that morning, and there was 3 teenage boys. What are they going to do to a substitute Sunday school teacher? They’re going to make short work of him! 


I could see it coming, so I said, “Hey guys, if you’ll sit still and let me finish the lesson, I’ll give you some ground school.” What’s ground school? I said, “I run a flight school over here at Boeing Field flying helicopters and things. I’ll give you the rest of the class time and we’ll do ground school.”


So I told them all about aerodynamics and basic controls and instruments and everything. One of the guys, his eyes were that big [Ralph held his hands out to the side of his head]. He couldn't get enough in his head. I took them for a ride later that week, all three of them, one at a time. 


Now run the clock ahead about 10 to 15 years, I’m selling airplanes here in Salt Lake, I walk through the lobby and I hear my name. “Ralph Mitchell?” I turn around and look, and here’s this big tall kid. I said, “Yeah?” He said, “You probably don’t remember me. I’m RT.” I said, “Yeah, I remember RT, Sunday school class in Renton.” He grabbed my hand and started shaking it. “I want to thank you for changing my life.” I said, “What do you mean?” He said, “I was an undisciplined, unfocused teenager until I saw flying. You took us for a ride. My life changed. I’m now a corporate pilot for Safeway stores.” I never knew until that moment! And I said, “Ok, great, I am excited for you.” And he said, “No, I’m serious. I want to thank you for changing my life, putting me on a track that I thoroughly enjoy.” 


I thought that was an interesting story. So I emailed this Cathy Free, and said I have a little story about how somebody’s life was changed because of a chance meeting. So she called and took me to lunch. We had lunch at Applebee’s just down here. She said, “Ok, tell me how you got started flying.” “No, no, no. The story is about RT, and how he got started.” “No, no. I want to find out how you got started.” So I told her the glass story. She said, “That is fun. That’s interesting. Now tell me about RT.” 


So both stories came out, and she printed it. I saw it in the paper, then I got an email from RT and he said, “Hey, there’s our story." AOPA (Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association) picked it up and put it on their website as a pilot vignette. So it went viral. It was all over. And I got phone calls from friends that I knew around there who said, Hey, I saw your story, I read your story. Anyway, I kept it, it’s still on my Internet.


But anyway, to follow up on this RT story, he lives in Salt Lake now. He owns a business downtown. It’s a satellite broadcasting type business....But I was teaching flying - I got contacted by Gene Curtis that owns G and B flight service. He called me and he says, “do you know to spin an airplane?” I said, Yah. He said, “Do spins bother you?” No. I like spins. He said, “Ok, I’ve got 6 flight instructors that are scared to death of spins.” I said, there’s no reason to be scared of spins. He said, “Yah, but they’re scaring the students now. Would you take them up and teach them how to do spins again? Because they had to do spins to get their flight instructor certificate. 


KF: This is when you roll the plane?


No, this is when you stall, it loses power and you roll it over, spin. So anyway, the rest is history. So he hired me to teach these instructors and I would take them out. So my name was on the roster of his instructors. 


One day I got a phone call. “Hi, is this Ralph Mitchell?” Yah. “Is this the Ralph Mitchell that used to live in Renton?” I said, “Is this RT?” He said, “Yah! Are you an instructor at Skypark?” Yah. He said, “I need my bi-annual flight review.” Ok, RT! So we went up in a twin engine and I certified him again for his. So we’ve been back and forth together, talking, gone to lunch a few times. 


Well, he bought a share of a twin-engine Duke, which is a pressurized, very high-speed airplane, twin engine, cabin, he has a 10th ownership in it, and I’ve gone up with him in it several times. Anyway, to make a long story short, which I never do, just last week, he rode with me to get me re-certified for my flight instructor. Next week he’s going to ride with one of my students who’s ready to solo as we take them up to a point, then we have another flight instructor ride for what we call a phase check. So his pre-solo phase check is going to be with RT. So we’ve stayed interested and together....


Oh, I was leading up to tell you, he’s kind of phasing out of his business, and he’s got a job flying Learjets for a charter company....He said, “... Not a trip goes by, last week, in fact, we’re on our way to Baltimore, Maryland, and I’m sitting there in a Learjet, 35,000 feet, doing 550 knots and I said, 'Thank you, Ralph Mitchell. Thank you, Ralph Mitchell.'

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Source:

  • From a conversation on [date? I have a transcript with timestamps from this interview, but didn't mark the date of the recording. 2014ish? I'll update the source when I confirm the date.]
  • Read the entire collection of Ralph's flying experiences here.

Top Gun, UFO, and Ralph's Signature Floppy Hat

Ralph wearing his signature hat, here with Ella
in Scotland, October 2014. The Top Gun pin is the
large one on his right; the UFO pin is the circular
one in the middle.
Ralph has a signature floppy hat (Tilley brand) that he always wears (to help protect against melanoma), and the hat is covered in pins, each one with a story. 


Here's a bit of detail about two particular pins:


Top Gun

While visiting Arizona for Ella's high school reunion [10 or 15 years ago?], Ella said to Ralph, "Let's go flying out in the dessert." Of course, Ralph would never pass up an opportunity to fly. However, unbeknownst to Ralph, Ella had previously made arrangements for Ralph with an outfit that offered flying in aerobatic or military planes. (Queue the theme music to the movie "Top Gun".) 


The pilot took him up and said, "I understand you fly. What do you want to do?" Ralph asked if he could do an "inverted test and run." The pilot said, "Take it over! You can't brake the airplane." With Ralph at the controls, he turned the plane over and did this upside down maneuver, in addition to other aerobatics for the next hour. "It was so fun!" His Top Gun pin is a souvenir from that day. 


[Somewhere there's a video of his experience. Once we find it, we'll be sure to post a link to it here. That video will also likely reveal the type of plane he flew, and the name of the outfit.]


UFO

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This stands for United Flying Octogenarians. That's right - to join you have to still be flying as pilot-in-command on or after your 80th birthday. The slogan of the organization is "Where the history of aviation is still flying." Ralph was pretty excited to join the ranks of 1,500 pilots in this club when he turned 80! And he likes to jokingly say to an unsuspecting listener, "Did you know, I'm a member of the UFO?" 


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Questions: 

  • Anyone know the story behind other pins on his hat?
Funny detail:

Source: 

  • From a conversation on 4 December 2020, as well as previous conversations.

Ralph's Favorite Planes to Fly

Photo of a Bonanza on display at the Dairy Queen
in Centerville, Utah. This photo of the photo
taken August 2019.
It's fun to imagine Ralph writing the following letter to Santa:

 

Dear Santa, I've been very good this year. On my wish list for Christmas is a Bonanza, a Gulfstream, and a Hughes 500 helicopter. I could even help deliver presents! And by the way, I'll need a hanger too. Sincerely, Ralph


That letter's not too far off. Ralph shared that if he had all the money in the world, those would be the aircrafts he'd purchase, as those are his favorites. And if nothing else, he'd love to have a picture taken in front of all 3 aircraft together. (Who can we call to arrange that???)


When asked what his favorite airplane is to fly, without hesitating he answers: A V-Tail Bonanza! Why? According to Ralph: If you fly it right, you get the best performance out of it of any airplane.

Not everyone knows how to fly a Bonanza. But Ralph was taught early and was able to perfect his skill. And he related, if you fly it properly, it flies better than any other airplane. 

In fact, he's loved teaching how to fly this aircraft, as it has nuances that are not intuitive as compared to flying planes, and he recalls students laughing when the lightbulb turns on in their heads. 

Aerodynamically, the way the wings and the v-tail are built, if you simply fly it flat, you have to keep one foot on the rudder to hold it otherwise it will sashay back and forth. But if you take it up and push it forward a little bit to get the v-tail in the air - it actually looks like it's pointed down - you can add 10-15 knots to the speed and you can take both feet off the rudders because the tail is up high enough to stabilize the plane. 


Ralph explains some of the nuances of flying his favorite plane,
a Bonanza. Filmed 16 August 2019. (2:27 Min)

What does Ralph like about the Gulfstream? "It's very fast, very comfortable, and pressurized." 

Ralph in front of a Hughes 500. (Year?)


The Hughes 500 helicopter - turbo powered! "It's fast, maneuverable, and just fun to fly!" 


In the video above, Ella added: "He'd rather be in the air than on the ground." No denying that. :D

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Sources:

  • Video filmed 16 August 2019
  • Conversation on 26 October 2019
  • Conversation on 4 December 2020


Read the entire collection of Ralph's flying experiences here.





Church Callings and Sage Advice

Ralph and Ella
July 2016 (the day of this interview)

A few years ago, in July 2016, I was riding in the backseat of Ella and Ralph's sedan, on our way to the Payson Scottish Festival. Among the things we talked about on the way were church callings/responsibilities they've held. This is what they shared that day.

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When Ralph and Ella lived in Oklahoma [years?], Ella had the calling of Stake Primary President. She would travel throughout her stake - which was 165 miles long by 130 wide, covering parts Oklahoma, Arkansas, and Kansas. Ella recalls:


When they [the stake presidency] called me and we talked about the travel [required for the calling], I said, “I don’t mind the travel, as long as I don’t have to travel during a tornado watch!” 


Ralph remembers that many times as he was heading out to work in the morning, she was also on her way to visit a ward or branch. He remembers that at the time there were about 6 wards in the stake and 3 or 4 branches. Sometimes it was 9 or 10 o’clock at night before Ella would return home. In the winter time, Ralph would take a day off and drive Ella and her counselors to their meetings. Ella chimed in: “It’s not like here [in Utah] where you’re just around the corner.” She served in this calling for a little over 1 year. 


One of the most surprising and challenging callings Ralph had was when he was called to be bishop [KF: I think it was the Orchard 3rd Ward in North Salt Lake]. He was 43 years old. He served for 5 years and 1 month. (Not that he was counting!) After that service, he was on the High Council for their stake, then subsequently he was the High Priest Group Leader for their ward. 


A particularly memorable experience in a calling was when they were living in Oklahoma, Ralph was at the stake center for a priesthood meeting (Ralph was executive secretary at the time), when a tornado hit, about 7 pm at night. Ralph was going throughout the building, opening windows in the foyer and classrooms so that as the tornado came through and the air pressure increased, the windows wouldn’t implode. The lights were out and there was no power, and they continued to hold the meeting with flashlights. 


The stake president got up and said, “It’s been suggested that we cancel this meeting and let everyone go home. We feel impressed to continue to hold the meeting and all of our families will be fine.” So they held the meeting. They could hear the tornado roar - it sounded like a freight train!


The next day was Sunday, and Ralph was called by Oklahoma Public Service to fly a helicopter to survey the damage. He recalls:

 

I was up flying the helicopter [He gets a little choked up - “It grabs me even now when I think about it!”]. So I flew over this area, 600 homes in a tract just southwest of the stake center were all wiped out. Nobody was hurt. Nobody was killed. But their homes were damaged. I was flying over in the helicopter and I could see the path of how it hit the ground. It went back south of the stake center, then lifted up, went over the stake center, and hit a block north. 

 

There was a little 7-Eleven store - they called them Get-and-Gos there, a convenience store - it was a block south of the stake center, wiped out. The convenience store was gone. The only thing that was left was a level piece of concrete. [Ella says, “You were protected.” And Ralph chuckles, as if that was a huge understatement. Indeed they were!]

 

What was interesting is that two brothers that I know of said, “The heck with this. We’ve got to go home and take care of our family.” So one guy jumped up and got in his car and headed home. He was one of the ones that lived some distance away. It started raining then - we got torrential rains there. He drove under an underpass and his car died [in the deep] water. So he sat in his car all night under the underpass. He didn’t make it  home. 

 

The other guy got home and loaded up his family and said, “Hey, let’s get out of here. The tornado is coming.” They loaded up their car with food, water, stuff like that. About 15, 20 minutes later, his wife said, “Well, where are we going?” He said, “I don’t know. We’ve just got to get out of this.” They also, their car stalled, and they slept in the car that night. 

 

It taught a lesson to me at least, that when a leader of the stake says, “This is our inspiration, we’re going to hold the meeting. We can’t force anyone to stay.” Everyone who stayed at the meeting made it home and their family was safe. 

 

The tornado hit about 4 miles from our place in Broken Arrow.


In the summer of 2016, Ralph and Ella were in their third year of teaching a teenage Sunday school class together in their ward in Centerville [name of ward?]. They loved those youth and loved being with them each week. I got to join them that Sunday, and I was impressed at how the youth loved to be there too - I think they felt of Ralph and Ella’s care and concern. They were quick to volunteer, they paid close attention, and readily participated in the discussions.


Looking back at their varied church service, what would Ralph and Ella do differently if they knew then what they know now? “Pray more!” Ralph chuckles. That's some sage advice!


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Source: From a conversation with Ralph and Ella on  9 July 2016.


Tasty Traditions: Mashed Potatoes with Horseradish

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A staple at the Mitchell holiday table is always mashed potatoes with horseradish.
Whether it's Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, or anytime mashed potatoes are served, this variation of the classic dish is what Ralph prepares. And they're legendary!

Where did Ralph get the inspiration for this daring side dish? Ralph and Ella first enjoyed it in a restaurant on one of their travels in the United States, then they started experimenting with it at home.

Quite simply, Ralph makes classic mashed potatoes, then dips a spoon into the horseradish, taps it on the rim of the mixing bowl, and blends it all together. 

But here are a couple pro tips, based on our experiences:

Start small, sample, then add more horseradish if desired. And make sure it's all blended in.
Ralph doesn't use a recipe when he prepares his potatoes - he just relies on his cooking experience and intuition. But that makes things exciting sometimes too, such as when too much horseradish is added or it's not fully mixed in. Whooo-weeee! The flavor might be a little overwhelming, but it will certainly clear up your sinuses! (Speaking from experience.)

Warn your guests before they dig in. 
Cousin RM shares a hilarious story of the first time his wife joined the family for Thanksgiving. No one thought to prep her about the potatoes ahead of time. She ate a bite, thought for sure they were spoiled, but was so confused as she looked around at the other guests eating them and not seeming to think twice about them. She didn't learn until after the meal that the flavor was by design.

For those of us who rely on recipes rather than intuition, here are a couple to try:

Combine this with blonde brownies, and you'll be on your way for a classic Mitchell holiday!

Sources:
  • Stories shared by Ralph and Cousin RM on 27 November 2020