Memories of Earl Inglish (1873-1958)

Earl Inglish
It’s been so fun for me to learn more about Ralph’s maternal “granddaddy”, Earl Inglish (1873-1958) (and relatedly, his maternal grandmother, Bertha Clarice Copeland Inglish (1882-1977).)

Although there’s some information that I’ve been able to learn about him through census records and other documents, the real treasures are the first-hand accounts from his son CI, Grandpa Ralph, and Ralph’s first cousins MJ and AP. Spoiler alert: Earl apparently had quite the sweet tooth; could fix just about anything, from the buckle on a sandal to a cotton gin; had an incredibly high pain tolerance, kept bees (with his son Garland), and had a way of making his grandkids feel so special.

Please note: We can’t confirm the facts 100% on all these details, but these are the family members' remembrances.

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Early Years
Earl was born on 27 February 1873, the 3rd of 13 children and the oldest son of Alexander Soloman Inglish (1838-1923) and Martha Ophelia Skipwith (1851-1934). (Fun fact: 9 of the 13 children of Alexander and Martha had names that started with “E”: Ethel, Earl, Edna, Elsie, Emmet, Eva, Ella, Emma, Ernest.)


He was born in Bonham, Fannin County, Texas, a small town (1) that his grandfather, Bailey Inglish (1793-1867) founded.


(I wonder: What was Earl’s father’s (Alexander) occupation? Did they have a farm? Daily life growing up in a household with 13 children?)


Religious Roots
Growing up, Earl’s family were members of the Methodist church, and his father (Alexander Soloman Inglish, 1838-1923) was a devout student of the Bible, even writing articles on various biblical subjects. Alexander taught Earl, his oldest son, that the church that Christ had established when he was on the earth needed to be restored, and that he should seek for that restored church. 


In particular, what encouraged Earl to later  be especially receptive to learning more about the doctrines of Mormonism was learning about the restoration of the Levitical Priesthood to the earth, as this was something in particular that he had studied in the scriptures and was seeking. 


Here’s a brief retelling of their conversion, shared by Ralph and Cousin MJ. (Read a longer account of their conversion to Mormonism/The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints here.)

Recorded 26 October 2018
3:40 min


Courtship and Marriage
Cousin AP recalls:
[They met] at some dance, and somebody wanted her to come over and meet this fellow. I think he introduced himself as Earl Inglish. I can’t remember what it was he said about why he was there, and she made some remark about he looked like one that the cat brought in or the dog brought in, something to that effect....but it didn’t seem to deter his longing to date her. [Chuckles] She talked like she was a little bit smart aleck about it.
When it was time to get married - she was 19, he was 28 - it was a very common practice in that era that “they got in the buggy and rode to the justice of the peace’s home, and just sat in the buggy, he came outside, and married them, and signed all the documents and so forth and gave them, and they went on their way.” As far as AP knows, their parents were not in attendance and there were no witnesses, but we don’t know for sure. They were married 15 December 1901 in Ivanhoe, Fannin County, Texas.


They had 7 children together (5 boys, 2 girls. The two girls are Ralph’s mother and cousins AP and MJ’s mother.)


(Read more about Bertha and their courtship here.)


Setting Up Home
Cousin AP once related how she had mapped out where Earl, Bertha, and their young family lived by looking at where each of their children were born. Genius idea! Here is a similar attempt, with data from census reports included as well. You'll see that they moved around quite a bit, until they settled in Mesa, Arizona.
  • 1902 - Paul, born in Elwood, Fannin County, Texas
  • 1904 - Garland, born in Ivanhoe, Fannin County, Texas
  • 1906 - Juanita, born in Neanda, Jones County, Texas
  • 1909 - Hugh Ophelia, born in Elida, Roosevelt County, New Mexico
  • 1911 - Rayburn, born in Menard, Menard County, Texas
  • 1914 - Alvin, born in Menard, Menard County, Texas
  • 1922 - Carl, born in (city? county?), Arizona 

The census records from 1930 and 1940 list Earl and Bertha as living in Mesa. We know that they lived there from that time until they passed. 

323 S Lesueur Avenue, Mesa, Arizona


The first home that Earl and Bertha ever owned (having lived in rental properties previously) was one built for them in 1945 by their son Ray, at 323 S Lesueur Avenue, Mesa, Arizona. After he returned from World War II, he used his GI Bill to help finance the project.  


(Any memories of the home? Number of bedrooms or bathrooms? Family gatherings here?)


Bertha, Earl, with son Ray
About 1940

Livelihood
Son CI describes him as having been mechanically inclined, working on and maintaining steam tractors and engines. 


Granddaughter AP describes him as a machinist. While their family was young, they were moving west to follow better work opportunities. Earl worked primarily on cotton gins, moving to new locations with his family as employment was available. They would stay for a time (a year or so? we’re unsure) while Earl would fix the machinery and get it in good working order, then would move to another spot when the work was finished and his skills were needed elsewhere. (Read more about their journey west from Texas to Arizona here.)


According to census records, Earl listed the following as his occupations: (2)

  • 1900 Census - age 25, day laborer, living in parents household, Justice Precinct 7, Fannin County, Texas
  • 1920 Census - age 46, farmer (what kind? The census indicates, but the handwriting is hard to read), living in Cartwright, Maricopa County, Arizona
  • 1930 Census - age 57, Retail sales, service station, (Bertha was listed as a “sales lady, service station”. Was this at the same station?), living in Mesa, Maricopa County, Arizona
  • 1940 Census - age 67, Gardener helper, temple grounds,  living in Mesa, Maricopa County, Arizona

From first-hand family accounts, we know that Earl also worked in the boiler room of the Mesa temple, maintaining the heating of the temple, retiring from that around 1950.


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Now, for more personal remembrances, the following are stories that Ralph and his cousins AP and MJ shared about Granddaddy Earl and Grandmother Bertha.



Double Motion, and Sweet Rewards
Cousin AP remembers: 
He loved lemon drops. And my kids cherish the memories of, my oldest daughter would, he was a machinist and would work with metal and filing metal and things like that and he would get metal splinters in his hands. And he would give the kids a lemon drop if they would pick the splinters out of his hands. And so my daughter talks about how she would always go and pick the splinters out. 
And he would also do double motion. Double motion means that when one hand is doing something the other hand is moving the same. Aunt Wee (Juanita) was that way and my brother Hugh was that way, and I think Mauna a little bit. It seemed to get weaker down the generations. I haven’t heard about it in years. He was quite double motion, so he would reach in his pocket and he’d be feeling around to get the lemon drop out but his other hand was moving and the kids would watch it and when those fingers came together they knew he had gotten a hold of it and would be pulling it out. [chuckles.] My kids talk about that all the time, watching Granddad get the lemon drops out of his pocket and taking the splinters out of his hands.

A High Pain Tolerance
AP: I know that whenever he would get a rotten tooth and it would ache, he would take a pair of pliers and go down to Ralph’s mother, Aunt Wee (Juanita)... to have her pull that tooth with a pair of pliers. And no anesthetic, no shots, no nothing, just a pair of pliers. And she finally pulled just about all of his teeth. They wouldn’t use anything to deaden the pain or anything. He would just stand there and take it and she would pull it out. 

Secret Passage Into the Mesa Temple
Another memory from AP:
Granddaddy, when they lived in the little house, this was after they moved out of the Little Jerusalem and they got a house right directly across the street from the temple, from the boiler house. The boiler house…[was] a small building just south of the temple in the parking lot that they called “the boiler house” and it had big tall chimney. That was the way the heated the temple in those days. And he was in charge of the boiler house, to keep the boilers fired up and keep the temple warm in the winter. And there was a tunnel that went from the boiler house into the basement of the temple, right into the baptismal font, underneath where the oxen were.  
Halfway between the boiler house and the temple was a little small building; it looked like a playhouse to me. I thought it was a playhouse when I was a kid. It was actually the ventilation to the temple. It was a square building with a screen around the top and a roof on it. It was after I was baptized -- I was baptized in the Mesa Temple. At that time, we were all baptized there because there were no fonts in any chapels, so many of us our age were baptized in the font at the Mesa Temple.  
And it was after I was baptized, Granddaddy took me through this tunnel—that was the way he got into the temple to check the temperature and make sure everything was correct there—and he took me through that tunnel and let me go up and touch the oxen that were holding the baptismal font. It was just a really neat experience! I do not remember him telling me not to tell anybody, but I never did! Years later, after I was married and I was here visiting with my sister Mauna...we were reminiscing about our childhoods, MJ told this story about Granddaddy taking her through this tunnel into the baptismal font. And I said, “Oh, he took me too!” And [another family member] said “Oh, he took me too!” None of us had told anyone else until then, so we decided that as the children were baptized, that was what he did: he took them in to touch that oxen that were holding the baptismal font. It was kind of a neat experience for an eight-year-old child!


Personality
From AP:
AP: I never heard her [Grandmother Bertha] raise her voice or get upset or mad at anybody or anything. She did get a little out of sorts with Granddaddy every once in awhile. [Chuckles]RM: Earl! [Chuckles]AP: He was quite overweight and he loved to eat candy bars. And sometimes I think he did it just to get at her. So he would sit and eat candy bars and he was real quite overweight, and she’d ask him how it felt to pregnant all of the time. [Chuckles] The more she fussed at him about those kinds of things, the more he did it. [Chuckles]

Here, Ralph and MJ share memories of Granddaddy Earl and Grandmother Bertha: Walking home from school and visiting with Granddaddy who was working at the Mesa Temple; Granddaddy pulling his friend's tooth; sugary indulgences; napping on the porch; fixing shoes.

Recorded 26 October 2018
7:34 min


And here, Ralph and MJ share memories of Grandmother's homemade pancakes and biscuits; Granddaddy with his hot drink and bowl of sugar; snuggling Granddaddy in his chair; and hearing aids

Recorded 26 October 2018

3:20 min


Death
Earl passed away on 13 February 1958 in El Paso, Texas, while visiting his son CI who was living there. He was two weeks shy of turning 85. He is buried in the City of Mesa Cemetery next to his wife Bertha. (3)




Sources: 
  • From conversation with CI and JI on 9 August 2015
  • Phone call with AP and RM, grandchildren, on 11 October 2015
  • Video of Ralph and MJ filmed 26 October 2018

Notes:
1. Population of Bonham in 1870: 928. In 1880: 1889 - Quite the population boom! Source: http://population.us/tx/bonham/
2. Earl's occupations through the years, according to census records:
  • 1900 Census - age 25, day laborer: "United States Census, 1900," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/M3G3-661 : accessed 5 May 2016), Earl English in household of Alex English, Justice Precinct 7, Fannin, Texas, United States; citing sheet 12B, family 225, NARA microfilm publication T623 (Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.); FHL microfilm 1,241,634.
  • 1920 Census - age 46, farmer (what kind? The census indicates, but the handwriting is hard to read. Include a screenshot) - "United States Census, 1920," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/MCR2-VFF : accessed 5 May 2016), Earl Inglish, Cartwright, Maricopa, Arizona, United States; citing sheet 5B,  NARA microfilm publication T625 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.); FHL microfilm 1,820,049.
  • 1930 Census - age 57, Retail sales, service station. (Bertha was listed as a “sales lady, service station”. Was this at the same station?  "United States Census, 1930", database with images, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XH1S-CVT : accessed 5 May 2016), Earl Inglish, 1930.
  • 1940 Census - age 67, Gardener helper, temple grounds. "United States Census, 1940," database with images, FamilySearch(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VYWT-M88 : accessed 5 May 2016), Earl Inglish, Mesa, Supervisorial District 1, Maricopa, Arizona, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) 7-68B, sheet 11A, family 253, NARA digital publication T627 (Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 2012), roll 106.
3. The location of Earl and Bertha's graves in the City of Mesa Cemetery: Block 531, Lot 1, Graves 1 and 2.

The Day Ella's Family Was Sealed in the Temple

Vintage Postcard of the Mesa Arizona Temple
Source: Postcard Bought on eBay
After converting to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in June 1932, Ella’s parents, George and Kate Findlay, started making plans to emigrate to America. They would leave their homeland, their family, friends, occupations, and the comfort of a communal culture...to buy one-way tickets on an ocean liner.

It wasn’t fame or fortune that called to them, but the desire to gather together “in Zion” with other members of the Church and to receive the blessings of the temple. At that time, the only operating temples of the Church were in the United States and Canada, and there weren’t any announced plans to build any others in Europe anytime soon.(1) If families wanted to receive these saving ordinances and be sealed together, they made the sacrifice to emigrate.

Mesa, Arizona, would be their final destination, with the family coming in waves: First George in December 1948, then Kate and Ella in May 1949, and Ina following a few months later in October 1949. (Read more about their emigration story here and here.)

The Mesa temple was just a few blocks from their home. And the day for them to be sealed together as a family had finally arrived, in spring 1950.(2)

Ella was 16 at the time. And unfortunately, when I finally thought to ask Ella about details of the day, she couldn't remember much. However, when we visited Ralph's first cousin MJ in October 2018, MJ shared what she happened to remember about that day - it made such an impression, recalling it almost 70 year later. How is this relevant? MJ, although a cousin of Ralph's, she was also a classmate and friend of Ella's.

MJ recalled (3):
We were friends in high school, and I remember the day they were all going to be sealed. And they were looking forward to that day....And then they had a dance that night; it was a big party. It was like the Gold and Green Ball. And I remember you [Ella] said to me, "But isn't being sealed together such a sacred thing that would we want to end the day joyfully and jolly, you know, going to a dance?" And I thought, Wow! This girl is just golden! I mean, I was so impressed with that because the sacredness of finally having your family sealed together and you didn't want the day to end partying, you know, or taking away from that sacred [experience].
This girl certainly is "just golden"!
Ralph's cousin MJ, who was also a classmate of Ella's, recalls when Ella's family
was sealed in the temple. Filmed 26 October 2018.
1:03 min


Notes:
  1. The first LDS temple in Europe (and 9th operating LDS temple) was built in 1955, in Bern Switzerland. Source: http://www.ldschurchtemples.com/chronological/
  2. I'm still trying to track down the exact details, but it looks like George and Kate were sealed together on 7 February 1950, while Ina was sealed to them on 31 March 1950. If Ella was sealed to them on either of these, or another day close to this time, she would have been 16 at the time.
  3. From a visit on 26 October 2018.

Life Lessons, for the Grandchildren and Beyond

On a Friday evening in April 2018, I had the pleasure of sitting at the dining room table with Grandpa Ralph and Grandma Ella, and what fun we had laughing and sharing life stories and lessons learned. These are just excerpts of our conversation about family and life, but these represent wisdom from our elders shared with their children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, and beyond. 


"I'm in Charge of My Career"... or Maybe Not
5:58 min


Be True to Yourself, Have Faith
0:35 min


On Overcoming Trials and Forgiveness
5:09 min


Cherish These Days
1:08 min

Places of Significance: Mesa, Arizona

I recently sat down with Ralph and we scrolled through my camera roll, looking at photos that he or my parents had shared with me of the various homes family members had lived in, as well as other places of significance, in Mesa, Arizona. Here's the roundup!

As you see these photos and read through the descriptions, if these trigger any memories, we'd love to hear! Please reach out and share!

257 S Hobson Street
This is the duplex where George and Kate Findlay lived, with teenage daughters Ina and Ella, when they first arrived in Mesa from Scotland in 1949. It's on the corner of S Hobson and East 3rd Avenue. They lived here until George built a home for them, just a few houses away.

How long did they live here? (until 1953?) How many bedrooms? Square feet? Any unique features about it? Has it changed much since the family lived here?

257 S Hobson Street
Photo taken October 2016


251 S Hobson Street
This is the home that George Findlay built for his family, which was under construction when Ralph and Ella got married in March of 1953. It's just north of the duplex where the Findlays were living when they first moved to Mesa.

How long did they live here? (until 1953?) How many bedrooms? Square feet? Any unique features about it? Has it changed much since the family lived here?


251 S Hobson Street
Photo taken October 2016

323 S Lesueur Avenue
This is the home where Earl and Bertha Inglish lived, and where Ralph was living (in the basement) when he was in his senior year of high school and he met Ella.

This was the first house that Earl and Bertha owned. Prior to that they had always been in rentals. 

How long did they live here? How many bedrooms? Square feet? Any unique features about it? Has it changed much since the family lived here?

Ralph shared his Uncle Ray built this home, using money he received from his GI Bill after World War II. In fact, Ralph helped dig out the basement with his cousin Don Johnson. (By hand?) It was a one-room basement, with an outside stairway. (That's how basements were built at the time - more for storage.)


323 S Lesueur Avenue
Photo taken October 2016

323 S Lesueur Avenue
Photo taken October 2016

323 S Lesueur Avenue
Photo taken May 2018

629 East Main Street
This the Dairy Queen where Ralph would occasionally work as a teenager. The exterior hadn't changed much in 70 years. Unfortunately, this building was razed in May 2018.

When Ralph was growing up, there were two Dairy Queens in Mesa, owned by two brothers. Milford Wray had the location on Country Club Drive on the west end of Mesa, just south of Main Street. And his brother Jesse Wray had the location on Main Street in the east side of Mesa near the LDS temple.

Ralph usually worked at the location at Country Club Drive - from his sophomore to senior years of high school, about 2 1/2 years - but he would help clean the east location sometimes as well. Ella would come down and help too - this was when they were dating. 

The location at 629 East Main Street had a simple set up: it was an ice cream dispensary with 2 doors, two windows that they served ice cream from. No place to sit down and eat it - walk up only (not even picnic tables outside.) But despite all this, it was still a popular place!

The location at Country Club Drive is still in operation, though the building has been rebuilt.


629 East Main Street
Photo taken May 2018
446 East Broadway Road
In the 1950s, this was known as the LDS 5th Ward Chapel, and this is where Ralph and Ella held their wedding reception. It was just about a block away from Earl and Bertha's home at 323 S Lesueur Avenue, on the corner of E Broadway Road and S Lesueur Street. It's no longer an LDS chapel but rather a school (called the New Horizon School).


Former LDS 5th Ward Chapel
Photo taken October 2016

Former LDS 5th Ward Chapel
Photo taken October 2016

1012 S Horne Street

This is the home where Bertha Inglish and daughters Juanita and Hugh Ophelia lived after they were all widows. (Love the pink! Though looking at the current home on Google, it's now white.) 

My favorite story about the three of them I've heard thus far is about the VW bug they'd cruise around in together! Hah! And how they would frequent the Dairy Queen together, like Three Musketeers.


1012 S Horne Street
Photo courtesy of cousin SB

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Sources:

Questions:
  • What other places of significance should we include here?
    • The home where Ralph's Uncle Ray lived? Also on S Lesueur, right next to Grandma Bertha and Grandpa Earl Inglish?

Would love to:
  • Plot all of these on a map. Add that to the to-do list!

Ralph and the Harmonica

Ralph was 13 or 14 years old when he received his first harmonica at Christmas. "And before the day was over, my lips were real fat because I played and played!" By the end of the day, he had mastered playing Silent Night!



The one he was given as a young teenager was a small one, with 8 or 12 holes. It was in the key of C, which was pretty standard, and cost about 3 1/2 or 4 dollars. 

He's had 8-10 harmonicas over the years, in various sizes and styles, but the Hohner Chromonica 64 Chromatic Harmonica, which he purchased as an adult (maybe 20-25 years ago), is his favorite. It has 16 holes, can cover 4 octaves, and plays in the key of C. (It's apparently what Stevie Wonder likes to play as well.)



Ralph's stepfather, Lester Johnson, also played harmonica. His harmonica had two sides to it that you could roll and change keys. In fact, he would have his harmonica attached to a wire frame that wrapped around his neck so he could play "hands free," or rather use his hands to simultaneously play the guitar and sing too! (Like the ad below.) Lester was a great entertainer!


Image Source
Ralph plays by ear, never having had any formal training and not knowing how to read sheet music, but if he can hum the tune, he can play it. His repertoire includes mostly hymns and patriotic songs: Amazing Grace; Come, Come, Ye Saints; How Great Thou Art; Scotland the Brave / Praise to the Man; America the Beautiful; For the Beauty of the Earth; to name a few.

He'll pull it out to entertain us sometimes at family gatherings, and I have fond memories of him playing harmonica with GS in Shetland on our trip there in September 2014. He said he still pulls it out to play sometimes, late at night, as it's a great release or way to decompress.

Let's take this show on the road!



Here we are on Thanksgiving Day 2018. We loved hearing Ralph play!

Sources:
  • Video filmed on 22 November 2018. 
  • Additional information from phone conversations on 13 January 2020 and 15 January 2020.