Hurrah! Twelve Years Searching, We Found Wilhilmina’s Grave

Our makeshift gravemarker
June 2026
When I had previously been in Shetland (in 2014), we had tried to find the graves of Wilhilmina Inkster (1835-1896) and her husband Robert Bruce of Burravoe (1827-1865) - these are Grandma Ella’s great grandparents. We didn’t have any luck at the time, and after our trip I found in our records a Bruce Family register, which included more definitive information about where they were laid to rest: Wilhilmina at “the new cemetery in Lerwick” and Robert at the Kirk of Hamnavoe on Yell. (1) I was determined to find them the next time!


Prior to our June 2026 trip, I reached out to the helpful folk at Burial Services at the Shetland Islands Council. I shared the details from our family records, and here’s what I learned: (2)


  • Hurrah! Wilhilmina was confirmed to be buried at the Knab Burial Ground located in Lerwick (which must have previously been called the “new cemetery”), in lair number 43, 3rd terrace, sloping/knab side. (3)

  • Her grave doesn’t have a marker, but they shared with me a map with a diagram of the location, a Google Maps pin (https://maps.app.goo.gl/1XsMSFczWoPaZp236), and a photo of the adjacent grave stone on the left, so we could be sure we found the right spot. (See the images, below)

  • Wilhilmina is the only one interred in that lair. It was bought by a solicitor for her interment on the 29th December 1896 (the day after her passing). 

  • With regard to Robert, unfortunately, records were not consistently or accurately maintained for the majority of the Shetland burial grounds as far back as the 1800s, so some mysteries, including Robert’s burial place, will remain as such.

  • The current sexton (caretaker of the building and grounds of the church) of the Kirk at Hamnavoe shared that all the early records have been either lost or destroyed, so we can’t confirm or reject the Bruce Family Register we have that lists Robert (and some of his children) being buried there. (But I would like to believe that our family record and the local folklore is a credible source!) (4)


 ……..


On Friday, 12 June 2026, we made our way to the Knab Burial Ground. The weather was overcast and drizzly, and we were bundled up for warmth, but we were so excited to be there! 


The directions that the council had given us to the lair were perfect - we found it easily. We brought a piece of paper with Wilhilmina’s name written on it, as well as her birth and death dates, to serve as a temporary marker. And on top we placed a small bouquet of wildflowers - pink, purple, and yellow - picked there at the cemetery. S also found a heart-shaped rock that we placed there as well. 


We sat there for a time, taking in the gorgeous view, me sharing details of Wilhilmina’s life with the kids, feeling so good about having found her resting place, and feeling so satisfied that she is not forgotten. It was an incredible moment! I hope Wilhilmina is smiling down on us for our efforts. (And oh, Grandma Ella would be so pleased as well!)


What’s Next? We’ll work with the council to get a proper gravemarker in place for her, then we must go back to visit again. ❤️


The location of Wilhilmina's Grave


For reference, the grave marker to the left of Wilhilmina's lair


The location of Wilhilmina's lair, in context
June 2026


A heart-shaped rock for Wilhilmina
June 2026

Notes:

  1. See this post for more details about this research: Robert and Wilhilmina Bruce/Campbell - Final Resting Places (https://greatflyingscots.blogspot.com/2016/06/robert-and-wilhilmina-bruce-final.html)

  2. From email correspondence with the helpful folk at burials@shetland.gov.uk in April and May 2026. 

  3. Fun fact: The "Knab" is the name of the sharp headland extending south of Lerwick on the Shetland Mainland. The Knab Burial Ground (part of Lerwick New/Old Cemetery) gets its name because it sits directly on top of or adjacent to this coastal headland. (Source: https://www.scottish-places.info/features/featurefirst90268.html)

  4. From email correspondence in January 2018 with TG, the steward of the North Isles Family History site (https://www.bayanne.info/Shetland/).

Zetland Family Histories - 4 Generations Later?

Zetland Family Histories,
at University College London, May 2026
In anticipation of a June 2026 visit to the Shetland Islands, I reached out to the local council, to see what guidance they could give to help fill in some of the gaps in our family records, and so that we could make some new discoveries when we visited the islands in person. Trying to take advantage of access to such records while we live in the UK!


They pointed me toward this volume, widely considered “the” source (but also widely acknowledged as having errors too): Zetland Family Histories (1), an out-of-print volume from 1907. I checked online for a scanned version; looked for a copy at online book-sellers (including eBay); then realized that I might be able to find a copy at a library. Eureka! The University College London (UCL) had a copy - just a couple miles from our UK home. (Finding an accessible volume while living in California would have been much more challenging!)


On a clear May morning, I ventured to the UCL main library, and with my day pass in hand, I could view this resource. I carefully held this book close to my chest as I wandered from room to room in the library, trying to find an empty desk to spread out my papers and really immerse myself. It was exam time for the university students, so the library was packed. But I finally found a space. 


And wow! As I was turning the pages of this 120-year-old record, I had this moment, thinking of Grandma Kate Findlay (Ella’s mother, Ursula Katherine Bruce Beattie (1904-1990)), who did such extensive family history research before she emigrated from Scotland to the US in the 1940s. This volume was in circulation at the time Kate would have been doing her research, with her own mother (Ursilla Katherine Bruce (1862-1937) born in the Shetland Islands) listed in the record. Would Kate have consulted this reference as well? It’s certainly possible, and such a wild thing to think about.


I found chapters for the Bruces of Burravoe, Symbister, and Sumburgh, as well as the Hunters of Lunna, and took photos of the pages that seemed relevant. Looking forward to comparing this with our family records!


Remember how thrilled Ella was to discover her “lost” cousins in Shetland?(2) It makes sense how the extended family could become “lost,” as this history only includes the generations through marriages, but does include, for example, the posterity through non-marriage relationships (such as the children that our ancestor Robert Bruce of Burravoe (1827-1865) had with 5 other women.) If Grandma Kate was consulting only this volume, her sources were limited. What would she discover with the records so easily available to us now?


Notes:

(1) Zetland, as the islands were known until about the mid 19th century, though officially that name wasn’t retired until 1974.

(2) See this related post, "Our Family Lost and Found": https://greatflyingscots.blogspot.com/2014/10/our-family-lost-and-found.html



The approach to UCL's main library
May 2026


Kate Findlay with husband George
and daughters Ella (L) and Ina (R), abt 1948
Image source: Ella's personal files



My notes for the library that day, and imaging Kate looking
over my shoulder, double checking my work - May 2026















Happy 70th Anniversary, Ralph and Ella!

Ralph and Ella, cutting their wedding cake.
March 5 marks 70 years since Ralph and Ella's wedding in 1953! 


If they were here to celebrate with us, I imagine they would share the sweet story of how they met and their first date, how Ella gave Ralph quite a scare when he proposed, details of their wedding day and reception, and I hope that they would play "their song" on their record player while we ate bowls of ice cream in their Desert Rose china (They received this china for their wedding, displayed it in their china cabinet, and frequently used it throughout their lives.)


Here are some mementos from their special day:




Newspaper article in the Mesa Tribune,
dated 8 July 1952, announcing Ralph and Ella's engagement.


Their reception invitation



On the grounds of the Mesa Arizona LDS temple.



On the grounds of the Mesa Arizona LDS temple.


The beautiful couple!







Cutting the cake.



Admiring wedding gifts, including their Desert Rose china.



Left to right: Friend and bridesmaid Joyce Rogers,
Ella as the bride, sister and maid of honor Ina Findlay.


Bridesmaid Joyce Rogers and maid of honor
(and sister) Ina Findlay.



The Wedding party, left to right: George and Kate Findlay (Ella's parents),
Joyce Rogers (friend and bridesmaid), Ina Findlay (Ella's sister and maid of honor),
Ella, Ralph, Lee Johnson (best man), Juanita and Lester Johnson (Ralph's mother and stepfather).



Tribute poem written by friend Elva Brown, 
shared at Ralph and Ella's reception. 



Tribute poem written by friend Elva Brown, 
shared at Ralph and Ella's reception. 



Newspaper article from the Mesa Tribune,
sharing highlights from Ralph and Ella's special day.