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Evidence of the Stories They Told and Lives Well Lived

Ralph with a model airplane, late 1940s.
In February 2021, over the course of several cold and dreary days, I gathered with SM and LM and their children at Ralph and Ella's home in Centerville, Utah. We were there to help in the continued effort to sort and find new homes for Ralph and Ella's belongings and mementos, as the family was preparing their home for sale. 

I brought my scanner as a carryon, and set up shop in Ralph and Ella's office. We organized photos and documents, and I scanned and scanned and scanned for days (and twice all night), creating digital versions of these priceless treasures, to be able to document and share these files with the broader family.


The days I spent there were so sacred, to be granted a peak into what Ralph and Ella saved, what was most important to them, what they hung on to, and what they wanted to remember. Each item made a statement about what they valued. 


But what touched my heart most was to find concrete evidence of the stories that Ralph and Ella told. The stories were already real, but these relics brought them to life.


Here are a few examples:







A range that Ralph purchased from his uncle Ray's shop, Inglish Electric. 
Paid in 30 monthly payments of $8.56.


View of Mesa, AZ, from the air, of Rendezvous Park
(coincidentally, where Ralph and Ella met)


This was labeled on the back, "My hobby."

  • The huge family tree that Kate Findlay (Ella's mother) had created. She was ahead of her time with her genealogical research! This chart starts with George and Kate Findlay (born in 1903 and 1904, respectively), going back I'm not sure how many generations, but the earliest date listed is 1080 AD. (See a video of it here.)


Kate Findlay's handwritten family tree.
For context, this chart measures about 5-feet wide and dates back to 1080 AD.



Reclining against the handle bars.

On two wheels!






  • Ella's school notebooks and study guides from Scotland, while a student at the Aberdeen Central S. S. School as an early teenager. Ella talked about how when she emigrated at age 15, she was ahead of the schooling standards for the same grade in America. But the Scots really set the bar high for their students! 

Ella's notebook for English exercises, filled with essay she wrote
on various prompts.

An essay Ella wrote about a week-long school camp to Kemnay, Scotland.
(Other stories and photos of Ella's family in Kemnay, here.)


Note how spelling and grammar were corrected, and then Ella had to 
rewrite the corrected words at the end of her essay.


Ella's English and Arithmetic exam book





"Mental Arithmetic" - I wonder whether this was a focus in the US curriculum for this age
in the late 1940s. Ella was really good at doing mathematic calculations in her head.


  • Files and files and files of family history work, for both Ella and Ralph's sides. 



Just a sampling of the many files of family history work
that Ralph and Ella saved. 


  • Sweet correspondence with loved ones far away - grandparents, cousins, friends, and even Ma Pat, the sweet woman who lived upstairs from the Findlays on Prospect Terrace in Aberdeen, and who assisted in Ella's birth.




A letter from Ma Pat to Ella, 15 January 1952

  • Every card, note, photo - it seems like that they ever received - saved in shoeboxes and plastic bins. Including children's art projects, letters to Santa, notes from children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.



A note to the Easter Bunny,
from Ralph and Ella's daughter BR.


These, and many more artifacts, are physical testaments -- evidence of the stories they told and lives well lived. (May I live my life as well, and with the evidence to show for it.)


From the Findlay Family Photo Album

We've been pouring over old photo albums recently from Ralph and Ella's home, and there's something both sweet and thrilling to see these images of loved ones from years gone by. It's fun to see them at ages we can relate to: as children, teenagers, young marrieds, young parents. And it gives us glimpses into other facets of their personalities and the dynamics of relationships. I love it so much. I'll post photos from Ralph and Ella's albums as it's relevant.


Related, cousin AD reached out as she found some photos of Ella and other Findlay family members, which I've posted below. Check out snapshots of Ella's folks as new parents, and see Ella as a pre-teen, and see the grandparents, aunties, and cousins that were such a part of Ella's life, especially before they emigrated.


These are such a treasure! Thank you, AD!


Ella's father George Findlay on the far left, next to his sister Ethel Findlay, wife Kate (Ursula Katherine Bruce Beattie Findlay) holding their baby Ina (Charlesina Findlay Slade), and George's sister Carrie (Caroline Smith Findlay) on the far right. Photo must have been taken in 1928, as Ina was born in May 1928 and still looks quite small in Kate's arms. 



Sweet Ella on the far left, next to her grandmother Charlesina Smith Love Findlay, holding Ella's cousin Sheena Leith (daughter of George Findlay's sister, Carrie), unknown person in the middle, George Findlay (senior) holding Ella's cousin AD, and cousin FG on the far right (AD and FG are children of George's sister Ethel). On a picnic, assuming near Aberdeen, guessing in the mid 1940s. All dressed up! 



At the same picnic. Ethel Findlay on the far left, then Lizzie (Elizabeth Love Findlay), Charlesina Findlay holding AG, FG in the back, sweet Ella next to her grandmother, George Findlay (senior) holding Sheena Leith (daughter of George Findlay's sister, Carrie), then Carrie (Caroline Smith Findlay) just behind George, and unknown person on the far right. Assuming near Aberdeen, in the mid 1940s.



Charlesina Smith Love Findlay (Ella's grandmother) with her son Jack (John Heatherwick Findlay) and holding baby Madge (Marjorie Love Findlay) - these are Ella's uncle and aunt (her father's youngest siblings). Likely sometime in 1925, as Madge was born in February of that year, and that would make Jack 4 years old (born in May 1921). Assuming this is in Aberdeen.



The Findlay women in 1952. From left to right: Lizzie (Elizabeth Love Findlay), Madge (Marjorie Love Findlay), Charlesina Smith Love Findlay holding baby MC (daughter of Madge), Carrie (Caroline Smith Findlay), and Ethel Findlay. These are George Findlay's mother, four sisters, and his niece (Ella's grandmother, aunties, and cousin). This photo was taken just before Madge emigrated from Aberdeen to Australia.



George and Charlesina Findlay at the marriage of their daughter Madge (Marjorie Love Findlay) to Max Duthie in 1946. The woman on the left is Mrs. Duthie (not sure of her first name), the mother of the groom. 


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Source: Photos in the personal possession of AD. Thank you for sharing!



Places of Significance: Kemnay, Aberdeenshire, Scotland

Kemnay, Scotland
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Kemnay is a little village 16 miles west of Aberdeen, situated on a bend in the River Don. Ella’s family would ride the bus to this location in the countryside, for picnics or to pick wild brambleberries. On a scrapbook page Ella had made with some photographs taken there in 1939, she described these summer holidays as “blissful summer days.” Ella said, “I loved it out in the country. My mother used to say, ‘Ella needs to marry a farmer.’”(1)

During World War II, in the early 1940s, Ella spent 2 or 3 summers in Kemnay, to keep her out of the city and further from the danger of German air raids. Ella wasn’t sure how her family became acquainted with the host family - she stayed with the Cheyn family (maybe spelled Cheyne?) - but it wasn’t uncommon that families from the city would arrange for their children to stay in the country during the war. Ella remembers that she stayed in an upstairs room of the farmhouse, and she remembers the host family had a son. She would help with farm chores - milk the cow and collect eggs from the chickens.(2)

High Street, Kemnay
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Ella remembers one night during the war, when she and her host family watched what seemed like fireworks in the sky, but it was really probably the British artillery on the ground firing toward German bombers overhead. "It's still so bright in my memory...the flashing." She wasn't worried for her own welfare; she was far enough out in the country that the planes didn't bother to go there. But she was worried about her parents and sister back in Aberdeen (her sister was in a hospital for treatment of tuberculosis at that time).(3)


Kemnay, Scotland
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Ella enjoyed her summers in the countryside, but she remembers anxiously waiting for her mother at the end of one summer, excited to see her coming down the lane after arriving by bus.

Add to our to-do list on our next trip to Aberdeen: Having a picnic in Kemnay.

These family photographs show George and Katherine (Kate) with 
their children Ina and Ella, as well as George's sister 
Madgie (or Madge) and an unnamed family friend. The bottom left
photo also shows "farmers children" - perhaps this was the family that
Ella would later stay with in Kemnay during the war? Did they have
a relationship prior to the war?

Sources: 
  1. From a conversation with Ella on 13 January 2017
  2. From a conversation with Ella on 16 January 2019
  3. From a conversation with Ella on 30 May 2014

Ina Findlay Slade's Memories of Aberdeen and the Church during WWII

Ina Findlay, Betty Sutherland, 
Helen Edwards (or Helen
then Betty?), and Kate Findlay
The following is a memory posted to the page for Charlesina Findlay Slade (1928-2015) on FamilySearch, written by Charlesina herself. Charlesina, most often called Ina, is Ella's sister.


See also these previous, related posts:


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When I was 11 years old, there was excitement in our branch in Aberdeen, Scotland. It was September 1939 and the Millennial Chorus was in Aberdeen for one week. This chorus was made up of missionaries touring the mission, giving concerts.


At this time, 1939, the Aberdeen Branch was the northernmost branch in the British Mission. It was exciting to an 11 year old to be around that many missionaries at one time. They had concerts booked all week and at the end of the week there was to be a special treat. The mission president, Hugh B. Brown, would also be in Aberdeen. A room in the Music Hall had been reserved and President Brown would speak and the Millennial Chorus sing. But, alas, events in Europe were to interfere with these plans. September 3, 1939, Britain declared war on Germany. This meant Pres. Brown could not leave London. Plans and preparations had to be made for all missionaries to leave Britain and return to the U.S. This was a sad time. The chorus was advised by President Brown to finish their appointments, and go ahead and give the concert at the Music Hall. Since Pres. Brown would not be there, they had to fill in that time and sing twice as long, then they were to report to London. The withdrawal of the missionaries brought changes in the leadership of some of the branches. My father was made Branch President and mother the Relief Society President. It was a small branch to begin with, but with the withdrawal of the missionaries, this was a test of the faith of the members, and many fell away. During the six years of war, Aberdeen, one of the four branches in Scotland, was the only branch to remain open all through the war years, with only eleven of us usually in attendance at meetings; 5 adults and 6 children. One family evacuated to the country to get away from the air raids. Aberdeen is on the northeast coast of Scotland on the same latitude as southern Norway. The German planes had but a short hop, skip and jump from Norway to Aberdeen, and it was easy to find as it stood between two rivers. Radar had not been perfected yet and as a result, the German planes could sneak in and drop their bombs before the air raid siren blew. It was very frightening, hearing the thud of the bombs, and wondering where the next one would land. During the worst raid, a bomb was dropped just two streets away from where we lived. One member had her apartment damaged in one raid. The members did not have telephones, so Mother, as Relief Society president, had to rely on inspiration to know which sister she needed to visit. One morning after one raid, she felt the need to check on Sister Hendry. When she got to her street, it was blocked and a policeman on guard said a bomb had dropped there. The people had been taken to a Red Cross facility, and Mother found her. She was able to stay temporarily with another member until other arrangements could be made. With only six children in the branch, it was difficult to have Primary or Mutual. The missionaries had been led to my parents in 1930, but it was two years before they were baptized in the River Dee. I was only four years old then but my sister and myself were also baptized in the River Dee a few years later. The baptisms took place at a secluded place along the river. It was not until 1948 that Father came to Arizona and the rest of us in 1949. The faith and testimony of the adults in the branch showed us the way and kept us straight. Those members were: My parents, George and Katherine Findlay Brother Smart Sisters Eliza Edwards and Mary Hendry (the children) Betty Sutherland Houston Ronald Sutherland Helen Sutherland Helen Edwards Ella Findlay Mitchell Ina Findlay Slade To all of them I will be eternally grateful for faith in every footstep.

George and Kate Findlay's Steadiness During Uncertain Times

We're now about 7 months since the WHO declared COVID-19 a worldwide pandemic. These have often been described as "uncertain times," and it's remarkably strange how wearing masks has become a normal part of our day-to-day lives (though I may never get used to social distancing). 


In late September, I was able to meet up with Grandma Ella and Grandpa Ralph, and Grandma shared about the steadiness of her folks (George and Kate Findlay) during another uncertain time, World War II, when she was a youth. As a youth, rather than wearing the face coverings you see in the video below, she would bring a gas mask with her to school, and that became a remarkably strange but normal part of her day-to-day at that time. 


Although Grandma's memories of specific events are fading, I loved hearing how the hopeful and steady natures of her parents are etched in her heart. 

 

Filmed 27 September 2020 in Park City, Utah.

What Advice would George and Kate Give?

George and Kate Findlay
It’s been an unprecedented few months, especially for us younger folks who haven’t experienced rations and wars and restrictions on our day-to-day living. The World Health Organization declared, on March 11, 2020, the novel coronavirus (COVID-19) outbreak a global pandemic (1).


The San Francisco Bay Area of California (where I live) was initially hit particularly hard with the virus. All of the people and things that we love were rapidly becoming inaccessible: Schools, libraries, parks, churches, beaches, friends over for dinner, museums, restaurants, kids sports teams, traveling, etc. And our normal routines have been drastically disrupted: It still takes hours to go grocery shopping, wearing masks and gloves, long lines to enter the store (it’s exhausting, though the lines have gotten shorter as of late); husband D works from home exclusively now, moving from bedroom to back patio to kitchen table (wherever there’s the least amount of noise from the family); we slogged our way through online school for the kiddos. It’s been an exercise in resilience, ingenuity, deep breathing, and looking forward to when “normal” resumes (and trying to not have panic attacks thinking about how long that will take.)

Although much of the US is opening back up at this point, the Bay Area still has quite a few restrictions about wearing masks and the allowable size and place for gatherings (which admittedly some folks follow and some don’t). Many types of businesses are still closed (we’re looking forward to when hair salons are open!) And of course there’s the social distancing - keeping a minimum of 6 feet between you and others not of your household.

Sent to me by my sister AG in Glasgow. Love the visual!

We spend our days pretty much as we have been the past few months: Going for walks/scooter/bike rides in the neighborhood, going on hikes (many of the local state parks were closed, now open again), enjoying the sunshine and mild weather, taking a slow-food approach to our daily meals. We’ve planted herbs, baked lots of sourdough, cooked with dry beans, and picked berries to make homemade jam. We’ve deep cleaned our home. We’ve played lots of games and snuggled. We’ve prayed and cried. Our kids have learned how to cook more in the kitchen, how to take on more jobs around the home. We’re doing our best to stay connected to the people we love. We have not been personally affected by the virus, other than our lives being disrupted, feeling isolated, and the anxiety that comes from uncertainty. Our hearts ache for those who have been physically, economically, or otherwise affected. 
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Throughout all of this, I’ve often thought about George and Kate Findlay and other dear ones who hung on during previously grim times in our world’s history, such as during World War II. Now, I recognize that “sheltering in place” (especially in 70-degree weather in California) is very different from sheltering in a bunker when the air raid sirens go off. But I’ve had so many questions I wish I could ask them: How did they maintain hope? How did they “keep calm and carry on”? How did they look after each other? Was there a feeling of unity in their community? What did they cook? What was school and learning like? What were the little things that brought them joy? What advice would they have for future generations? 


Anyone have any insights to share?


Read more about George and Kate and their family during WWII in Aberdeen here: http://greatflyingscots.blogspot.com/2019/05/more-memories-of-aberdeen-during-wwii.html

Places of Significance: Mesa, Arizona

I recently sat down with Ralph and we scrolled through my camera roll, looking at photos that he or my parents had shared with me of the various homes family members had lived in, as well as other places of significance, in Mesa, Arizona. Here's the roundup!

As you see these photos and read through the descriptions, if these trigger any memories, we'd love to hear! Please reach out and share!

257 S Hobson Street
This is the duplex where George and Kate Findlay lived, with teenage daughters Ina and Ella, when they first arrived in Mesa from Scotland in 1949. It's on the corner of S Hobson and East 3rd Avenue. They lived here until George built a home for them, just a few houses away.

How long did they live here? (until 1953?) How many bedrooms? Square feet? Any unique features about it? Has it changed much since the family lived here?

257 S Hobson Street
Photo taken October 2016


251 S Hobson Street
This is the home that George Findlay built for his family, which was under construction when Ralph and Ella got married in March of 1953. It's just north of the duplex where the Findlays were living when they first moved to Mesa.

How long did they live here? (until 1953?) How many bedrooms? Square feet? Any unique features about it? Has it changed much since the family lived here?


251 S Hobson Street
Photo taken October 2016

323 S Lesueur Avenue
This is the home where Earl and Bertha Inglish lived, and where Ralph was living (in the basement) when he was in his senior year of high school and he met Ella.

This was the first house that Earl and Bertha owned. Prior to that they had always been in rentals. 

How long did they live here? How many bedrooms? Square feet? Any unique features about it? Has it changed much since the family lived here?

Ralph shared his Uncle Ray built this home, using money he received from his GI Bill after World War II. In fact, Ralph helped dig out the basement with his cousin Don Johnson. (By hand?) It was a one-room basement, with an outside stairway. (That's how basements were built at the time - more for storage.)


323 S Lesueur Avenue
Photo taken October 2016

323 S Lesueur Avenue
Photo taken October 2016

323 S Lesueur Avenue
Photo taken May 2018

629 East Main Street
This the Dairy Queen where Ralph would occasionally work as a teenager. The exterior hadn't changed much in 70 years. Unfortunately, this building was razed in May 2018.

When Ralph was growing up, there were two Dairy Queens in Mesa, owned by two brothers. Milford Wray had the location on Country Club Drive on the west end of Mesa, just south of Main Street. And his brother Jesse Wray had the location on Main Street in the east side of Mesa near the LDS temple.

Ralph usually worked at the location at Country Club Drive - from his sophomore to senior years of high school, about 2 1/2 years - but he would help clean the east location sometimes as well. Ella would come down and help too - this was when they were dating. 

The location at 629 East Main Street had a simple set up: it was an ice cream dispensary with 2 doors, two windows that they served ice cream from. No place to sit down and eat it - walk up only (not even picnic tables outside.) But despite all this, it was still a popular place!

The location at Country Club Drive is still in operation, though the building has been rebuilt.


629 East Main Street
Photo taken May 2018
446 East Broadway Road
In the 1950s, this was known as the LDS 5th Ward Chapel, and this is where Ralph and Ella held their wedding reception. It was just about a block away from Earl and Bertha's home at 323 S Lesueur Avenue, on the corner of E Broadway Road and S Lesueur Street. It's no longer an LDS chapel but rather a school (called the New Horizon School).


Former LDS 5th Ward Chapel
Photo taken October 2016

Former LDS 5th Ward Chapel
Photo taken October 2016

1012 S Horne Street

This is the home where Bertha Inglish and daughters Juanita and Hugh Ophelia lived after they were all widows. (Love the pink! Though looking at the current home on Google, it's now white.) 

My favorite story about the three of them I've heard thus far is about the VW bug they'd cruise around in together! Hah! And how they would frequent the Dairy Queen together, like Three Musketeers.


1012 S Horne Street
Photo courtesy of cousin SB

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Sources:

Questions:
  • What other places of significance should we include here?
    • The home where Ralph's Uncle Ray lived? Also on S Lesueur, right next to Grandma Bertha and Grandpa Earl Inglish?

Would love to:
  • Plot all of these on a map. Add that to the to-do list!

More Memories of Aberdeen During WWII


The following are excerpts from The Life History of George and Katherine Findlay, as Kate told to her grandson NS, who recorded it on tapes and transcribed it a few years before Kate passed away.(1)

Kate’s granddaughter BR says that this life history sounds just the way Grandma Kate used to talk - which makes sense because it was transcribed from her sharing stories orally. I love that, as it helps me to imagine her voice, intonation, and character.

What a blessing to have this record, and hopefully more family members can get a sense of George and Kate as people, as well as their homeland.

Please note: This text is true to the original copy of The Life History of George and Katherine Findlay, though in an effort to improve the readability, I've modified the paragraph formatting, updated the punctuation, or added clarifying points in brackets.

And please note: This is an account according to Kate Findlay - I can't guarantee that all of the facts here are correct, but this is how she remembered them.

In addition to this post, see these other posts on this blog about the Findlays and Aberdeen during WWII:


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We had planned and saved and then had to spend the money. We wanted to come to America and thought in 1938 we would manage and then things got real bad in Europe. And George of course was in the shipyards as a shipwright and he came home one day and said, “It’s very obvious that there is going to be a war and I’m not going to America so put it out of your head because I have to be here to work on ships the same as everybody else. I won’t be taken to the navy because I am doing the work on ships, preparing them and everything.”

He was 36 years old. So we just had to wait another run of years, and we actually waited 10 years to come to this country.

The week before war broke out we had notice that Hugh P. Brown was coming. He was the mission president at the time and would be in Aberdeen, and we had to try and get a nice choir and the Millennial Chorus was a group of missionaries that sang together. They couldn’t get a hall or any place to practice, and we had a piano, and they came and asked if they could practice.


Ella had a cat during the war years,
which she had named "Winston," because
"he [Churchill] was a BIG deal" she once said,
giving two thumbs up. :)

The following Sunday they were going to speak. In the morning at 11am it came across the radio saying that war was declared between Britain and Germany, and immediately we had to put black stuff around the windows and black blinds and curtains to cover that. George said the missionaries would be leaving. A knock came to the door and the missionaries said that President Brown would not be able to come up but they would have the meeting anyway and sing. There was packing to do as they had to leave for London Monday morning. President Brown had to get all the shipping to get all the missionaries out. It was a good meeting even though he wasn’t there.

When the meeting closed, the Elders spoke to George and said, "Could we come to your house? You have the biggest room for us, and we would like to have a meeting before we leave and ask the members to be there." All the missionaries and us, and Sister Edwards, Sister Sutherland and Mary Hendry and two others. They had a testimony meeting and everybody bore their testimony, and when it came to me I told them I had tried to start the genealogy but I would if I could but with the war now, not knowing what it will be, but I will try and go everyday and get something and work two hours every day and get something, and I did.



Ella outside of where her family lived during the war, at 311 Holburn Street, Aberdeen.
Their flat was on the 3rd/top floor of the end unit, the 3rd window from the left.
Photos taken in 2006, 2014.

The missionaries were very unwilling to leave. Then that week there was a letter came from the authorities of the Church and there was a note with this letter to George saying every branch president would be getting this letter, and to read it in church, and those that are not in church try their hardest to get each one and read that letter.

It said that [if] we would live as best we could in the times that were going to be, that if we kept the Word of Wisdom (1) and the things like that, we would be blessed, that nothing from land, air, or sea would hurt any of us. We would be protected, and if it was their wish and desire, the Lord would make things so that we could come to some place in Zion.

“[If] we would live as best we could in the times that were going to be, that if we kept the Word of Wisdom (1) and the things like that, we would be blessed, that nothing from land, air, or sea would hurt any of us.

He went around, and most of them did not come to church after the elders left. They seemed to think they didn't have the priesthood like the Americans had. They told him that. It shows how little faith they had.

The first thing that happened, we were told we no longer had the hall that we had and couldn’t get one but eventually got a very small room, but it was big enough because there would be Mary Hendry, the Sutherlands, and Sister Edwards, and us. We met every Sunday. The shipyards worked seven days a week in the war, but George had this card from the Church saying he was minister of the gospel to let him off and he did get off. I had a card also because I was Relief Society president and I kept in contact with the members and nonmembers we had known and did missionary work too. It was sort of fellowshipping.


As far as being safe. George was in the shipyards and you can’t imagine the darkness. There was not a match could be lit. If you had a flashlight, it had to have a hood on it and hold it down facing the ground. It was very dark and dangerous for him because going to the shipyards and then coming home, it was in darkness. There were all kinds of ships and he worked until 10 every night. Trawlers would go out. They were brave men and also merchant ships and they had no protection and there would maybe lifeboats lost.

Shipyards in Aberdeen, 1938 - Image Source

Sometimes they would be in the shed working. Some nights they wouldn’t go on the ship and if they did everything would be blacked out. No lights whatever. There was many a sailor lost that way. Where you walked to the ship there was a space between the boat and the pier.


One night George came [home] for his supper and then he left for work again, and Ella asked if he had two flashlights, and I said, only one. I said, he’ll be alright, don’t worry. He met the other fella that was working at the gate and asked him if he had his flashlight and he didn’t. So they held onto each other. The ramp onto the ship was just a plank of wood. George went first and crept on and the other fella held on to his feet. They got on but coming off it was worse because it was going down. He said that was murder. There was a young sailor asked them where the name of the boat was, but George didn’t say the name of the ship because they weren’t allowed to. But he said I think it’s along this way, but be awful careful. He saw he didn’t have a torch and he was sure that fellow was lost. They’d fall into the pier and nobody around to help them.


We had a lot of bombing and machine gunning. The word would get around real quick. You never got the news on the radio because they didn’t want the Germans knowing what had happened. A plane machine gunned a school when kids were in the playground, and machine gunning hit the walls of our house. It was a big granite house with large granite blocks. It never damaged us as it struck the wall of the bedroom where Ella was.


Down below there were big fields where there were army huts and foreign soldiers began to come in there in the barracks. There were Czechs and Polish soldiers that had escaped from their countries. We would hear them marching and you would hear them singing as they marched.

There were quite a few air raids and one especially bad one. (2) And when there was a raid, the next day I would stand at the window and pray and ask where I should go that day, and a name would be mentioned or a road and I would know who it was, and this day it was George Street.


“When there was a raid, the next day I would stand at the window and pray and ask where I should go that day, and a name would be mentioned or a road and I would know who it was.”

The only member lived in Charlotte Street, and that was off George Street. We were never told where the bombs fell - it went by word of mouth. So I went out and I went down to Charlotte Street, and sure enough it was Mary Hendry, and I didn’t get into the street and saw the policeman and handed [him] my card, and he said, “Well, Lass, there’s nobody there. You’ll have to go for information to the Red Cross.” I went there but Mary Hendry wasn’t there, and they told me she had gone over to the Sutherlands’ home over in Torry.

I went there and asked what happened, had she been in the house when it happened. It was late at night when the bombs fell. She said, “You know, Kate, I never went down to the shelter” (we didn’t either), but this night her neighbor, a young couple who had three children, came and asked Mary if she would look after the children. Her husband wanted to see a film in the picture house. So she had said she would watch them but the neighbor had said she wouldn’t leave them unless she took them to the shelter. Mary had said alright, she would take them to the shelter. There was no siren blew before the planes came in, so when the siren did blow she took them to the shelter and the bombs came.


This was a propaganda poster in Britain
during WWII. I bought this postcard at the
Churchill War Rooms Museum in London in 2011.
It's framed in our kitchen now, as propaganda for
our kids. ;-)
Mary was an old maid and she said she didn’t have any place to stay. She didn’t like staying at Granny Sutherland’s because of the noise of the kids. Sister Sutherland raised her grandchildren, both parents [of the grandchildren] were dead. Mary wanted a place of her own but that was very difficult. So I said I would see what George said and come back. Her apartment had been damaged by the bombing and she had papers and needed help with them.

At lunch time I told George and he said, "I'll tell you, we have that room. I wonder if they would give permission to put Mary in it until they build up that place again." I went with Mary to the lawyer who had the room, and I explained that Charlotte Street had been bombed and that she lived there and needed a place to stay until they built it back up and that it was impossible to get a place. We used the room as a church but Mary could put a bed in there and any little thing she would need. So it was alright and she stayed there for quite a few months until her place was ready again. I had to help her with the papers. You had to write down every article you had in the house and I had to run here and there reporting.

The time Glasgow had the big blitz [in March 1941], the planes came across from Stavanger, which is why we had so many raids. There was only 300 miles from Stavanger [Norway] to Aberdeen, and at that time radar was not perfected and the planes came over and they got near they would go down and up and over the city and bomb before the sirens blew. But this night there was the noise of the planes and I said to George, “We are in for it tonight.” The noise was terrible. He put out all the lights and opened the curtains and you could see they were close together, rows and rows. You wouldn’t believe the amount of planes, and says, “I wonder what is going to happen. They haven’t done anything yet.” They were coming over and going away. Still they kept coming all night.


In the morning he said, “Somebody’s getting it awful hard.” In the morning he went to work and I went on the tramcar and a woman said to me it was Glasgow got it. The six o’clock train from London came up to Aberdeen and they broke the news where the planes went. Glasgow was a congested city. There was not a ship touched and not anything of importance was bombed. All they did was bomb every house they could in the slum areas. These houses had more tenants in them than the Aberdeen houses. The slums in Glasgow were terrible. In one house there might be 24 tenants and there were streets and streets bombed. For three nights they came over like that.


Haddo House - Image Source
Well, we got a note that a sister from Airdrie (outside of Glasgow) was pregnant. Regardless how short a time or how long was told to put something in their bags and come and their children would be taken care of in other places, and they were put on trains, and she came to Aberdeen and was put into Lord Aberdeen's home, [Haddo House,] about 20 miles from Aberdeen. The rich people like him and Lady Cowdray (3) and all these people opened their homes to these women, and these homes all had banqueting halls. It was a great big hall. She wanted George to come and administer to her but he couldn't get the time off, so I said I would go and see her. (4)

They were all in the banqueting hall. It was huge and there was amour all around the walls. The beds were cots and they were all in long rows with a little box to put their things in. When it was their turn to have the baby, they were taken up to the house. They were given wings in the house. This sister was still in the hall and she was real nice. George went out on Sunday and blessed her.


A dining hall at Haddo House. Is this the same room that Kate references?
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You took the bus out and walked up a long drive to the place. Lord Aberdeen’s home is a very old castle, but they didn’t have the money but they had these ancient tapestries on the walls. It was really interesting. It is a fact that 90 percent of those babies died even as far along as this woman. (6) She was in there 6 or 7 months and her baby was born dead. Lord Aberdeen told them they could bury their babies in their private graveyard. They had their own private chapel and graveyards and he set a place apart so those babies could be buried there. That is what bombing can do.

"Haddo Babies" - Image Source
There was a friend of one of the members that I would visit. She wasn’t married and she was on duty doing fire watching work. Sometimes the bombs splintered and went on fire (firebombs) and immediately [when] that happened, the fire watchers would have to call and tell them to put out the fire. It was just around the corner and down the street where she lived and it was a furniture store and it was just going on the gloaming [dusk] about 6 o’clock. She walked up the street and she saw the plane and the bomb falling but she thought it was a body. The next thing when she came to, she was up against a shop door and her hat was gone and her handbag, and she saw the flames coming from a place and she ran all the way up, and she’s working away shifting furniture and helping other people.

When things began to get a little quieter there was a man came to her and said, “Do you know you are bleeding,” and said, “Look at your hands.” She was bleeding and he made her go to the Red Cross nurse. There were splinters in her hands of glass, and they took out what they could. She lost the grip in the hand and her leg somehow was affected. It would go underneath her suddenly. One day I said to her, “You don’t look good,” and she said no, her jaws were hurting like you wouldn’t believe. I said, why didn’t she go to the dentist or the doctor. She had gripped her mouth so hard her teeth had sunk into her jaw. She was sent to Lady Cowdray’s house and it was 20 miles the other way.

In 1960 when we went home [back to Aberdeen to visit,] she still couldn’t use that arm and her leg would give way under her.

There was another time George had been working late and working hard to get a job finished, and the boss said, “Boys, I am fed up to the teeth. It’s 9:30 pm. Come and we’ll go to the bar. Finish up, and Findlay you can go home.” He knew he wouldn’t go to the bar. They went to the bar and all that was left was the man who was supposed to watch the place. He came home early and I asked him why he was early. He told me, and then there were bombs falling. We were high up [on the third floor of our apartment building] and we could see in the distance in the dark that it was somewhere around the pier, but it’s very deceiving in the dark.

Well, he went to work the next day and I didn’t hear anything until he came home at lunchtime and he said, “Do you know what happened? Well, I was protected again. The shed where they were working on the boats, the bomb fell right on there and the guard, and all that was found was his boots.” Several times George was saved.

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Notes:

  1. Read more about the health code that George and Kate followed as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, called the Word of Wisdom: https://www.lds.org/topics/word-of-wisdom?lang=eng
  2. Kate is perhaps referencing the night of April 21, 1943, when between 40-50 bombers flew over Aberdeen. This was the "Aberdeen Mittwoch Blitz." Those planes, coming from Stavanger, Norway, dropped 127 bombs, killed 125 people (98 civilians, 27 servicemen at Gordon Barracks), injured 232, and damaged 9,668 homes. This was the last German raid on a Scottish City during the war. Source: http://www.mcjazz.f2s.com/Blitzkreig.htm.
  3. From online research as well as correspondence with representatives from The National Trust for Scotland in April 2019, I believe the house that Kate is referring to is Haddo House, a stately home about 20 miles north of Aberdeen that was opened up as a maternity hospital during the war. “Lord Aberdeen” was George Gordon, 2nd Marquess of Aberdeen, affectionately known as “Uncle Doddie.” He lived from 1879-1965. More on Haddo House: https://www.nts.org.uk/visit/places/haddo-house and https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haddo_House. More on George Gordon: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Gordon,_2nd_Marquess_of_Aberdeen_and_Temair. I’ve added Haddo House to our list of places to visit on our next trip to Scotland!
  4. Lady Cowdray was the wife of Viscount Cowdray who owned Dunecht House, which, according to Google maps, is about 14 miles west of Aberdeen. More about Dunecht House here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunecht_House, and the larger Dunecht Estates here: http://www.dunechtestates.co.uk/
  5. What’s a marquess and a viscount? These are aristocratic or nobility titles, describing the social ranks of Scotland (and I confess, this is confusing to me as a Yankee without any context other than Downton Abbey, and my learnings are from Wikipedia, which has its limitations and misinformation as well)—in order: Duke/Duchess, Marquess/Marchioness, Earl/Countess, Viscount/Viscountess, Baron/Baroness. More information here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peerage_of_Scotland. And for Downton Abbey fans, here: https://historymaniacmegan.com/2016/01/05/the-nobility-and-aristocracy-of-downton-abbey/.
  6. In April 2019, I asked the National Trust of Scotland whether there was a visitor book for Haddo House from this time period. It would be neat to see the signatures of George and Kate in it. Unfortunately, they have been unable to find such a record.
  7. I’m not sure how to confirm the data point that 90 percent of babies delivered at Haddo House were stillborn. The historian for Haddo House (during our correspondence in April 2019) wasn’t aware of such a figure, and based on the number of babies born at Haddo House, the 90 percent figure seems high. In fact, it’s recorded that about 1200 babies were born at Haddo House. “Nearly 1200 babies were born at Haddo Emergency Hospital, as it was known, and many still come back to visit known affectionately as the Haddo Babies.” Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haddo_House.