Young Ralph and the Floating Hat


Over ice cream at the local Dairy Queen in Centerville, Utah, an August afternoon in 2019, Ralph shared a hilarious memory from his childhood growing up in Mesa, Arizona...the story of The Floating Hat. 



The Thistle as the National Flower of Scotland

Thistles growing in Park City, Utah

Recently, while on an evening walk with my family in Park City, Utah, my girls asked what these spiky, purple flowers were. Oh girls! Let me tell you!


These delicate but defiant plants are the national flower of Scotland. And though no one knows for sure how that came to be, but it's played a significant part in Scottish history and folklore since about the 13th century. So the legend goes (this is the source of the following version) ...


One of the best-known thistle legends takes place in the mid 13th century during a surprise invasion by the soldiers of the Norse king, Haakon, at Largs (one of western Scotland's coastal towns).

 

The story has it that after coming ashore, this Viking force planned to creep up on the Scottish Clansmen and Highlanders and overcome them while they slept.

 

This amount of stealth required that they go barefoot - which proved to be their undoing.

 

Unfortunately for these unwary invaders, one of their soldiers bare feet came down hard on a Scottish thistle and his cries of shock and pain were enough to wake the sleeping Scots.

 

Leaping to their feet, the clansmen charged into battle and the rest, as they say, is history... and yes, the fiery Scots were victorious :)

 

Legend has it that because of the heroic role the plant played in the outcome of the battle, the thistle was immediately chosen as a national emblem.

 

Now, how much of this is truth no-one knows, but we do know that by the 15th century the Scottish thistle was being used as a national emblem.


A Fun Coincidence at 10A Prospect Terrace, Aberdeen

One of the things I love most about this blog is how it’s connected us to new family and new friends, and it has made this big world seem a wee bit smaller. The following is a great example.


In January 2019 I received an email through this blog from a gentleman in Glasgow (we’ll call him FB) who happened to have been born at 10A Prospect Terrace in Aberdeen...the same home where Ella was born (she in 1934, he in 1953. Ella’s family moved to Holburn Street in 1938).

What’s more, he said that when he was growing up they still called the home Tornaveen, and Mrs. Patterson (“Ma Pat”) still lived upstairs, just like when George, Kate, Ina, and Ella were there.

Small world, eh?

Ella, her older sister Ina, and Ma Pat, at their
home on Prospect Terrace - about 1938

I asked him to describe the home, as I've always wondered what it was like - how the rooms and kitchen were arranged, and when indoor plumbing was installed (when Ella lived there they used an outhouse out back for the toilet and the public baths or their grandmother's tub once a week to bathe.) Below are the details he shared.

Here’s a previous blog post describing the home.

And what also resonated with me that FB related: 

It’s funny how many physical things that you connect with disappear - family members, schools, colleges, houses, even objects; perhaps that's why Prospect Terrace is important to me in that it’s still there!

I think we find the same comfort, that each time we go back, it’s still there, which continues to connect us to our past.

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From an email received on 8 January 2019, from FB:

My name is [FB] and I was born at 10 Prospect Terrace  Aberdeen in 1953 … I recognise a lady in one of the photographs - Mrs Paterson - she was still living there in my time - but was quite old by then. 

From an email received on 14 January 2019, from FB:

Hello [KF]; it was nice to hear from you. I happened to stumble upon your site by chance when I typed in Bank Street and Prospect Terrace. I wanted to find out a bit more information about the corner shop where I went to spend my pocket money as a child; it was run by two elderly brothers called Archibald (I think). It's no longer a shop, but it does not take too much imagination to see it still on the corner.  

I no longer live in Aberdeen, having moved to Glasgow during the mid 1980's. My Grandfather and Grandmother lived in the house until the end of the 1950's. He worked in the railway as a signalman; working in the signal box under Union Bridge, which has now gone. He was born near a town called Inverurie. It's funny how many physical things that you connect with disappear - family members, schools, colleges, houses even objects; perhaps that's why Prospect Terrace is important to me in that its still there!  

You asked about the house. From what I can remember it was always rather dark, having a faint smell of mothballs and furniture polish, strange how smells stay with you and often trigger memories. You entered the house from a small vestibule which led to the hall. The stairs were to the left. The kitchen was at the back of the house, it had flagstone floors with high worktops made of very thick wood supported by equally thick rectangular wooden legs.  

Regarding baths; we had a big tin bath tub which was kept under one of the sinks or worktops The larder was next to the kitchen on the left hand-side, to the right of the kitchen was the back door leading into the garden. Toilets were still outside but I think plumbing was installed by this time. I had forgotten about them being outside until you mentioned it in your email.  

 

Old flagstones ran along the back of the house bounded by a small wall. This wall was the division where the garden began and the house stopped. The garden was uphill eventually leading to a fairly high wall at the top. Behind the wall was a lane which ran for nearly the entire length of the back gardens. 

To the left, along the wall of the garden was the old coal bunker which doubled for storage with all sorts of paraphernalia inside. I think that there could have been a milk churn in there also. The toilet was up from the bunker. Steps led to the toilet. 

The idea of having an outside WC, I believe was common even in the 1860s when Prospect Terrace was built. Thought to be necessary for hygiene  purposes. Grandmother always seemed to be busy in the house. I remember helping her beating rugs on the clothes line with a very ornate cane beater which used to hang under the stairs. I used to help by holding the ends of the rug. 

I wonder how the coal was delivered? Perhaps there was a door in the lane at the top of the garden. You have got me thinking now. The house tended to get sunlight from the street side which faced south which makes sense. The garden was always cold and in the shade when I think about it now. Not very many plants, some ivy on the garden walls.

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This snapshot is of Ella's sister Ina in front of 10A Prospect Terrace
when she returned to visit. (Year?)
Anyone know who the friend is in the photo? Is this Ma Pat?

Sources:
  • From email correspondence with FB on 8 Jan 2019 and 14 Jan 2019.

Meet Elizabeth Beattie (1840-1869)

This post began as a summary of the cemeteries in Aberdeen where all of our kindred are buried, with the goal of visiting their graves on our next trip (date TBD), but I’ve gotten a little sidetracked as some details were “unearthed” (for lack of a better word), with regard to Ella’s great grandmother Elizabeth Beattie and Elizabeth’s parents Adam Beattie and Janet Petrie Beattie (Ella’s great, great grandparents). Specifically, we learned more about the circumstances of their burial which gives us more insight into their lives. As I’m trying to organize the details I’ve found, howsabout we get to know Elizabeth and her family a little better. I think you’ll be glad you did!


Elizabeth Beattie is Ella's Great Grandmother

Elizabeth Beattie was born about 1840 (1) in Aberdeen, Scotland, the 2nd or 3rd of 5 children of Adam Beattie (a labourer) and Janet Petrie (unknown occupation). From the information we currently have, it’s unclear how many of those children lived to adulthood, but at least three (2): Elizabeth, her sister Janet (lived to at least early 20s)(3), and her youngest brother George.

Elizabeth worked as a flax mill worker (the flax mills processed flax, spinning yarn for the linen industry) and a flax slubber (an operator of machinery that prepares flax for spinning) (4) and perhaps also as a domestic servant. (5)

An example of a Scottish linen mill, this is Hillbank Works in Dundee
(Year? - Image Source)

At 20 years old, Elizabeth gave birth to her only child, John McDonald Beattie, born 12 November 1860. She was not married to the father, John McDonald (a boilermaker, according to son John’s corrected birth entry; an iron driller, according to son John’s marriage record). 

Kate Findlay (Ella’s mother), recorded the following about Elizabeth in her life history (Elizabeth was Kate’s paternal grandmother, and John her father). This information would have been passed down to Kate orally. (I’ve added clarifying details in brackets.)

My father [John McDonald Beattie] was born in Aberdeen, Scotland, of humble parentage. His mother [Elizabeth Beattie] was not married and had to work for her living at a [j]ute works [flax mill]. Her folks [Adam and Janet Petrie Beattie] looked after the baby while she was at work.

His mother [Elizabeth Beattie] had gone with this man [John McDonald] and she became pregnant and then she found out he was a married man. He came from Grantown and that’s down by Leith. He must have been doing a job up there in Aberdeen. She proved it [her son’s parentage] through the courts.
Ella would point out that Elizabeth was smart to use the father’s surname (McDonald) as her child’s middle name, with the mother’s surname (Beattie) as his last name, as young John was an illegitimate child and the father was actually not initially listed on the birth record. In fact, in January 1864, a little over 3 years after John was born, Elizabeth had the birth entry corrected to state that the father was John McDonald. The amended entry reads:
In an action relating to the paternity of a child named John McDonald Beattie born on or about 31 October 1860, at the instance [should this be insistence?] of Poor Elizabeth Beattie, Millworker, No. 37 St. Andrew Street, Aberdeen, against John McDonald, Boilermaker, Kirkpatricksland, [can’t decipher?] Street, Newhaven, the Sheriff Court of Edinburghshire on the 10th of December 1863, found that the said child was the illegitimate child of the parties aforesaid.
It’s not clear exactly what transpired to have the birth record amended, but it looks like it might have
involved Elizabeth traveling to Edinburgh and working with the Sheriff Court there, and then working with the registrar in Aberdeen, and it was probably still not as straightforward as that. But it sure seems that Elizabeth had guts! (And I’m shocked they felt to record Elizabeth as “poor” in this official record.) I’m grateful for her perseverance and insistence, that she went through that effort to have the record amended, as it provides us with more pieces to our genealogical puzzle. (6)

(See John's original birth recored from 1860 here; and the revised record from 1864 here.)

According to Kate’s life history, “[Elizabeth's] folks [Adam and Janet Petrie Beattie] looked after the baby while she was at work.” This seems to make sense as the census records I’ve found have not listed mother Janet as having a profession - perhaps she was taking care of little John.

It appears that Elizabeth and her son John, as well as her other two siblings, lived with her parents, Adam and Janet, in their young adulthood: In the 1861 census, the children Janet, George, and Elizabeth with son John, are listed in the household, living at 59 Woolmanhill, Aberdeen (though curiously, Adam was not listed on this census).(7) By 1864, Elizabeth with son John were living at 37 St. Andrew Street, Aberdeen (according to the corrected birth entry for son John). They would live here, with father Adam and mother Janet until they passed away in 1869 (according to each of their death records).

When Elizabeth’s son John was about 9 years old, he suffered an accident at home that caused him to be deaf the remainder of his life. The specific details are unclear, but here is what Kate recorded in her life history:

This was a turning point in his life as one day while playing near the fire in the kitchen a large pot, which was hanging [with chains] over the fire with boiling water in it, fell on him and the shock took away his hearing also speech…I don’t know if it was the pot or the water that struck him. He didn’t have any marks on his face but he was totally deaf…. 

But my father, after his accident, his mother was a [flax] mill worker, and I suppose she couldn’t look after him but she could have done better than she did….The family being poor could not look after him or educate him as they put him into a school for the deaf. But in doing so they seem to have deserted him completely as from that day till he was sixteen years of age they never visited him. So in his pride he in turn did not go visit them the remainder of his life.

It seems that John was put in the school for the deaf soon after his accident (we know he was admitted on November 28, 1870)(8)- I imagine it was a really hard decision for Elizabeth, but she was trying to make the best decisions for their circumstances.

When Elizabeth was 29, the hardships for the family increased, as her father Adam passed away on 25 March 1869 from bronchitis. He passed away at their home at 37 St. Andrew Street, Aberdeen.

Just over 3 months later, Elizabeth suffered from typhus, likely contracted from the fleas or lice so prevalent in the living conditions at the time. Per the death register, she was sick for 14 days before passing away on 7 July 1869 at the Royal Infirmary of Aberdeen, which at the time was at Woolmanhill (9). She was buried on 9 July 1869 at John Knox Churchyard.

Sadly Elizabeth's mother Janet passed away about 3 1/2 months later, on 26 October 1869 of bronchitis and "disease of heart" at their home at 37 St. Andrew Street, Aberdeen.(10)

Elizabeth and her parents Adam and Janet are all buried in the same plot, grave 58, in John Knox Churchyard, located about 1/2 mile from their home.
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I wonder whether Elizabeth's son John was aware of the passing of his mother and grandparents soon after he was at the school for the deaf (before he turned 10), as he seems to have grown up feeling that his family had deserted him – but in reality his mother and both grandparents had all passed away within 7 months time. His uncle George and aunt Janet seem to have survived, but it's not clear that they had any contact with John.

Royal Infirmary at Woolmanhill (Image Source)
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In March 2020, I reached out to the archives department of NHS Grampian, and the very helpful archivist shared with me a scan of the infirmary admission register for Elizabeth. (I'm still surprised they keep such records for so long!) It looks as though Elizabeth was initially admitted for a fever, then by the time of death it must have been diagnosed as typhus. The archivist also shared:

In order to be admitted into the Infirmary, a patient had to be recommended by someone – in Elizabeth’s case, this was the Inspector of the Poor for the City Parish, D McLeod.
Date of Admission: 28 June 1869; Admission #: 1060; Name: Elizabeth Beattie; Age: 29; Marital Status: Single; Occupation: Pauper, City; Address: 37 St. Andrew St
Recommender: D. McLeod; Ward: "Rachel"; Medical Attendant: Beveridge; Disease: Fever;
Result: Dead, 7 July; Parish: Town (Aberdeen centre)

And in June 2017, I also found this piece to the puzzle: I confirmed through the site DeceasedOnline.com what Ella had once told me, that she thought these ancestors were buried in John Knox Churchyard. Indeed, I found scans of the burial registers proving this information, and Elizabeth and her parents were all buried in the same plot, grave 58. (Note that Elizabeth is recorded as “Elis”).


Scan of burial ledger for John Knox Churchyard. See the third name down: Elis Beattie.
Access the full scan here.

Though I have not yet been to this cemetery, from looking online, it appears fairly small (unlike Allenvale!). But even though it’s small, I figured it would be best to reach out to the Bereavement Services division of Aberdeen City (which I did in January 2020) to see if they could provide a map of the cemetery, planning for that someday trip when we would visit in person.

Also, other than the cemetery register, I hadn’t been able to find any information online to confirm their burial there. Is their plot unmarked? If so, it wouldn’t have surprised me as Elizabeth and her two parents died within 7 months of each other, and Elizabeth’s son John was at a boarding school for the deaf, which implies there was no other family to assist. (And I was ready to roll up my sleeves to research getting a grave marker in place for them, as we did in 2018 for other ancestors.)

John Knox Churchyard - Image Source

The John Knox Church still stands but has been converted into flats - Image Source

But the response I received was more heartbreaking than simply learning that their grave was unmarked. In my email exchanges in January 2020 with the helpful folk in the Bereavement Services division of Aberdeen City, it initially looked like someone else owned the grave, per their records, the Alexander family. But in looking closer at the ledger scans that we have for Adam, Janet, and Elizabeth, it looks like additional people were buried in grave 58 ... implying that this was a pauper’s grave.

I learned that at this time (mid 1800s), it was common that many individuals would be buried in a single grave, and when the grave was almost full, the grave would be sold, and the owners would have the right to place a stone with their name on it. In this case, the owner of the plot is listed as “Alexander Alexander” (yes, Alexander twice). Whether or not there’s a stone there at all (even with the name Alexander), Aberdeen City couldn’t confirm. We’ll have to take a look ourselves on our next trip.
Maps of John Knox Churchyard and plot 58, received from the Bereavement Services division of Aberdeen City in January 2020


Since learning this, I’ve felt a range of feelings: Sad, mournful, indebted, and a whole bunch of other emotions I can’t label. Even though it makes sense, and even though it was probably common for the time, my heart aches for these kin, for their life struggles, for their dire circumstances and probably lack of hope. And here I am, wondering why I am the lucky one? Sitting in my sunshine, my comfort, my good health, my bounteous good luck surrounding me. I wish I could invite Adam and Janet and Elizabeth over, or bring them dinner, or have John (orphaned at 9) and my son G (who is 10) out riding bikes and exploring together. I would love to hear their stories, and I would love to thank them for hanging on, for giving life to future generations. I look forward to visiting the grave of these ancestors, marked or unmarked, and laying a petite bouquet in remembrance to their strength.

Any cousins out there from the Beattie line? From the information I have, it looks like one of Elizabeth’s siblings might have lived to adulthood - George Beatttie (1844-1927, born and died in Aberdeen). And perhaps sister Janet as well?


Notes:
  1. In family records, we have Elizabeth’s birth date as 1840, however, I haven’t yet been able to find an actual birth record for her. And according to the 1851 and 1861 censuses, she is listed as older than her sister Janet, for whom we do have a birth record - Janet was born in 1839. I’m estimating Elizabeth was born between 1837 and 1839.
  2. We make this assumption based on the 1851 and 1861 census records that list only 3 children, not 5: Elizabeth, Janet, and George.
  3. Elizabeth’s sister Janet is listed on the 1861 census as being 21 years old. Also, the informant on their father Adam Beattie’s death register, from March 1869, is listed as “Lassie Beattie, daughter” living at 2 Skene Street in Aberdeen. We can know with almost 100 percent surety that at the time of their father’s death, Elizabeth was living with him at 37 St. Andrew Street, Aberdeen, as that’s the home address listed for both Adam and Elizabeth, who passed just 4 months apart from each other. 
  4. More information about flax mills here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flax_mill.
  5. The 1851 census lists her occupation as "flax slubber." A consultant at the Aberdeen & N.E. Scotland Family History Society told me in email correspondence on 1 August 2020 that it refers to "Operator of machine preparing flax for spinning". On the 1861 census, her occupation is listed as “mill worker (flax)”. Her death record from 1869 similarly lists her occupation as “mill worker.” The marriage and death certificates of Elizabeth’s son, John, list her occupation as “domestic servant.”
  6. See the amended birth record here: https://www.familysearch.org/photos/artifacts/109030244. What’s interesting, on son John’s marriage record, he recorded both his mother Elizabeth and father John, but on John’s death record, which was reported by Grandma Kate, only his mother Elizabeth is recorded. Did she purposely leave off John’s father/her grandfather? 
  7. Although Adam was not listed with the rest of his family on the 1861 census, I did find another census record for 1861 that lists an Adam Beattie, railway labourer, age 64, as a lodger in another home, whose birthplace is Glenbuchat, Aberdeenshire, Scotland. I think that’s our man!
  8. Through email correspondence with Aberdeen University, which keeps some records on the Aberdeen Institute for the Deaf and Dumb, I learned the following on 13 Oct 2017: “I have checked through the minute book of the Aberdeen Institute for the Deaf and Dumb (MS 3428/2) and found a reference to a John Beattie: “November 28th 1870 - John Beattie, an orphan illegitimate sent by St Nicholas Parochial Board joined the institution Thursday 24th November.” It’s heartbreaking to think that, per Kate’s understanding of his childhood, that his family never visited or wrote letters and had abandoned him, but in reality, they had all passed away. However, I'm wondering where John lived or who he lived with between the time his grandmother died (26 October 1869) and he was admitted to the Aberdeen Institute for the Deaf and Dumb on 28 November 1870.
  9. What's the address for the former infirmary at Woolmanhill? Looks like it was in that location location until April 2017, for 275 years. Source: https://specialcollectionslearning.wordpress.com/2017/04/24/aberdeen-royal-infirmary-275-years-of-healthcare-at-woolmanhill/
  10. See Janet Beattie's death register here: https://www.familysearch.org/photos/artifacts/38223560

Questions:
  • We’re still looking for Elizabeth’s birth record. Anyone have this? From looking at other records, it looks like she was born between 1837 and 1839. (See footnote 1, above.)
  • Still trying to confirm: What are the death dates of the other Beattie children (Isabel, Janet, and Ann Ross)? Where are they buried? In John Knox as well?
  • Are there any other Beattie children that aren’t noted in FamilySearch? We currently have listed Isabel (1832-?); Janet (1839-?); Elizabeth (1840-1869); Ann Ross Beattie (1841-?); and George Beattie (1844-1927). There’s a large age difference between the first and second child, which makes me wonder whether there might be more children we haven’t found.
  • From what I can tell, George Beattie’s posterity continued. Hooray! Any cousins out there from that line? If so, please reach out! Send me a note through the “Contact Form” at the bottom of this page.
  • Did mother Janet Beattie sometimes go by Jane? Per a record posted to FamilySearch that has been indexed, but unfortunately we can’t see the original. But perhaps we can view the original when at a family history library? See here for more info: https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XTJ9-G98?from=lynx1UIV8&treeref=LWFF-NFW
  • Where might young John have gone to school, before the deaf school? Can we determine which school would have been for their neighborhood? They lived in the district of St. Nicholas. Does Aberdeen City have any records of his education? https://www.aberdeencity.gov.uk/services/libraries-and-archives/aberdeen-city-and-aberdeenshire-archives/catalogues-and-indexes/education-and-school-records
  • Would love to find more information about the flax mills at this time, particularly in Aberdeen.
  • Haven’t been able to find the family in the 1841 census. Were they recorded?